No. 143 - Do a Self-Check as to Where You Are in Your Career

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A Personal Relevance Reality Check Take a moment for a personal relevance reality check because at any age these painful things can start happening to you, and if they do, you'll want to change your course of behavior: -You increasingly feel that your smarts aren't getting you anywhere, that your skills aren't being used. -You aren't sought out or ...
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No. 142 - Leaders Needed: Apply Within

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It's Not Too Early or Too Late You have to continue to differentiate yourself at each stage in your career. Regardless of your age, at every point in your life, there is a younger person eager to step into your job. If you are 30 years old, there is an impatient 20-something coming up on you; at 40 there is that pesky 30-year-old. One 60-year-old C...
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No. 141 - Job Promotions Come From a Few Right Words From the Right People

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You see, right now, private conversations are taking place in secret sessions. Behind closed doors with shades drawn, management muckity-mucks sitting in high-back leather chairs are thinking hard about you and a smattering of your competitors. One person is enthusiastically singled out with the confirmatory statement, "He's different." Someone ask...
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No. 140 - This is Why Personal Branding Needs to be Important to You

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I know you're a solid citizen. You're a quick learner and truly smart. You try hard. You're pretty cool. You get along with people. You set a respectable example. You want to help and connect with others, to serve society. You aim to contribute meaningful work. You have dreams and goals to achieve something groundbreaking. You're motivated by money...
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No. 139 - Persistence Pays

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The truth is that persistence and drive override skill. When people say "no," it's a "no" for now. It doesn't mean you can't or shouldn't come back with a new approach. One CEO told me, "I always give 'no' as the first answer, and only if they don't give up but have the confidence to persist and come back at me will I believe their conviction." Bei...
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No. 138 - Success Breeds Jealousy

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Surprisingly one of the toughest parts of success is finding a colleague happy for you. But as they say, "Anyone can get pity. Jealousy you have to earn." Following the advice in my blog posts might cause you some trouble. When you persistently do off-the charts good work, the unintended consequence is that you make other people look bad. That can ...
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No. 137 - What Your Boss Wants

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CEOs tell me that they want people: Who are full of ambition and goals. Who sing—well, silently hum—at work. Who stretch themselves every day and who always have new challenges they're hankering to take on. Who get an emotional kick out of any accomplishment. Who are juiced (in the nonsteroid way) every morning to get out of bed and go for it. Are ...
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No. 136 - Self-Confidence is Everything

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Penguins in Antarctica are described by scientists who have studied them for 23 years as undaunted, without self-doubt, and with a good attitude. That's my definition of confidence. Once somebody's got confidence, you've got something. What confidence is not: -moral superiority-organization -chart title-tan skin and white teeth-grin and grip What d...
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No. 135 - How to Take Calculated Risks

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There is a saying among old cowboys out West: "One man with courage is the majority." When I write about courage, intestinal fortitude, guts, and boldness to differentiate yourself, it's not to encourage you to do stupid, risky things. I'm not looking for the daredevil mentality that causes you to rappel off the Brooklyn Bridge or swim with the sha...
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No. 134 - Leaders Are Constant Learners

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To differentiate yourself, you don't have to have an especially high IQ. No matter who you are or what your background or current circumstance is, one thing is certain: you can always learn, explore, and experiment in new arenas. You only need to be reasonably intelligent and insatiably curious. You can never know too much, and you can never have t...
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No. 133 - The Downside to Success

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A caution about your pouring your heart into your "art": it will spark jealousy. Surprisingly one of the toughest parts of success is finding a colleague happy for you. But as they say, "Anyone can get pity. Jealousy you have to earn." Following the advice in my blog might cause you some trouble. When you persistently do off-the-charts good work, t...
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No. 132 – Every Decision is a Calculated Risk

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Don't wallow in indecision. Problems are solved by making decisions; problems are avoided by making good decisions. The sooner you make a decision, the sooner you benefit from it. The earlier you make a bad decision, the sooner you can correct it. The unanimous response from CEOs and C-level executives when I've asked the question, "What's the most...
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No. 131- Do You Take Calculated Risks for Career Advancement?

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I'm not asking for utter fearlessness and risk without thinking. Just "go for it" a little more and more often than you have in the past—and more often than others do. If you hold back, you'll get into a rut, slip behind, fade out of sight, and sink into the sameness of the people around you. A calculated risk is just another way of saying to: Show...
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No. 130 - Why is a Positive Attitude Important?

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It's human nature to gravitate toward people, information, or places that imply a happier outlook. You provide that outlook for yourself, one that no one can take away. Frankly, few of us have any justification for the negative, pessimistic perspective that we let ourselves get bogged down with. No matter what you're going through that's tough, unl...
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No. 129 - How to Act Self-Confident

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To help with confidence development, simply try "acting confident" to the outside world, practicing how it feels. The outside "show" helps the inside "take." It's okay to display confidence you don't feel, to take a leap of faith. Pretending is not faking or hiding weaknesses. It's playing the part you want to achieve. When I coach politicians, I t...
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No. 128 - How Do You Improve Self-Confidence?

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So how do you become more confident? Get a head start by telling yourself that you're gaining more confidence now. It helps! Various experts add: being in good health, regularly exercising and taking care of your body, frequently participating in activities that are fun and not just working all the time, having some close confident friends that you...
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No. 127 - Use These 7 Steps to Network Effectively

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The following post is actually several years old. I wrote it with Barry Lenson when we were asked to contribute to the then prospering Trump University newsletter. BUT upon retrieving it from my archives (well, because Trump is in the news nowadays) I was struck how it's even more relevant today to replace the crutch of "connecting" through social ...
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No. 126 – You Can Mentor Millennials With This Wonderful Gift

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Mentor Millennials with the Gift of… Connections Recently I was quoted in a Forbes article on "the best presents for the millennials in your life." My suggestion was an introduction/meeting/connection with someone who could be important to the young person's career. It received a lot of positive reaction — especially among ambitious millennials eag...
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No. 125 – Did You Know Someone Wants Your Job Now?

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You have to continue to differentiate yourself at each stage in your career. Regardless of your age, at every point in your life, there is a younger person eager to step into your job. If you are 30 years old, there is an impatient 20-something coming up on you; at 40 there is that pesky 30-year-old. One 60-year-old CEO told me about a 44-year-old ...
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No. 124 – How Do You Stand Out to Get Ahead?

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Though most people like to believe they are singular, unique, and one-of-a-kind in their assignments, few are. Across the world, we are more similar than dissimilar. Yet, as fate would have it, your boss is looking for someone singular, who outshines the rest. You see, right now, private conversations are taking place in secret sessions. Behind clo...
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