How to Apologize — and show that you mean it.
There are specific steps you should take when you apologize. The following link is an interview I did on the subject but I’ll recap for you here:
-Review your position with the legal department
-Recognize your mistake and acknowledge your fault
-show Regret sincerely
-take Responsibility with no blame toward others
-explain the Remedy you have to offer to correct [...]
Put Your Life Story On Paper (Regardless Of Your Age) For Your Career Development And As A Gift To Your Family
Write your autobiography – today. Don’t put it off. Write from day one and bring it up to the present. Every six months or so take a couple of hours and update it.
Why put your history on paper? It’s your story so it’s a good story worth recording. You’re as important as anyone who has written one. It’s a good source for updating your resume, job interviews, and promotion evaluations, in managing and leading with a human touch.
What should be in it?
-Where were you born and under what circumstances?
-Were your parents happy with each other and their lives?
-What was your early life like?
-What teachers or adults outside the family influenced you most and why?
-What did you think about yourself in relation to other students?
-How did you get the attention you wanted at school and among your peers?
-What was happening in the country and the world that held your interest?
-When and how did you first earn money?
-When you were in high school, what were you planning to do when you graduated?
-Who did you want to be like?
-Did anyone advise you on a career that would be right for you?
-How did you relate to teachers, counselors, and bosses?
-How did you spend your money?
-What was your greatest academic achievement- and failure?
-Did you notice any shifts in your attitude toward life in general?
-What was your first job after college?
-Did you like the work you were doing?
-How and why did you make job changes?
-Why did you leave jobs?
-Looking back at certain jobs (or experiences) what do you wish you had done differently?
-What do you do outside of work? (sports, books, movies,hobbies, etc.)
-Did your career turn out the way you thought it would?
-How does it differ from your expectations?
-What is missing from your job now?
-In the future, how do you really want to spend your time?
This should take twenty thirty pages at least. Put in extreme detail; use the senses to paint a picture. Paste in photos, memorabilia, sketches. Highlight accomplishments, making sure you explain the situation, what you did, and what resulted.
The most important benefit of this tool? You now have a wonderful, unique gift to give to your adult children. Think about it- wouldn’t you want to know these things about your own parents? It would help you understand why they were like they were and why you are like you are!
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