| Benton Bio
Debra Benton has consulted with and spoken in front of hundreds of the
most successful executives this generation has seen come into power.
Her clientele list spans over seventeen countries and includes companies
such as NASA, Pepsi, Hewlett-Packard, IBM and Nabisco. She is an internationally
acclaimed keynote speaker, a highly recognized one-on-one executive
consultant and a best-selling author. Debra's work has been written
about in Time magazine, The New York Times, The Wall Street Journal,
USA Today, as well as featured on CNN, Good Morning America, The Today
Show, and CBS News with Diane Sawyer. Debra has coached people to meet
and work with Presidents Carter, Reagan, Bush and Clinton; be interviewed
by Donald Trump; to present at the Academy Awards; to testify before
Congressional committee meetings and Senate hearings; to give expert
witness testimony in court; to compete successfully for positions inside
and outside of a company; and to develop profitable professional practices.
Reviews by Robert Morris of two of her books (Executive Charisma and
Secrets of a CEO Coach) are now featured on the ACCE Web site.
Morris Bio
Since February of 2001, Robert Morris has been reviewing business books
for ACCE as well as for about 25 other Web sites which include Amazon.com
and borders.com (which now rank him #9 among their Top 100 Reviewers),
HR.com, National Association of Manufacturers, and Business and Professional
Women/USA. Based in Dallas, Morris heads a management consulting firm
which specializes in executive development within corporations and professional
associations. He also conducts interviews of best-selling authors for
Chamber Executive.
Benton Interview
Morris: Based
on your extensive experience working with
executives in all manner of organizations,
what seems to be the most common misconception
about
CEOs?
Benton: That
they are good and special and always right
simply because
they ARE the CEO. Obviously, that is frequently
not true. However, it is important to remember
that
most CEOs are not only talented, energetic,
and ambitious; they are also principled people
who try very hard to do what is ethically
right.
Morris: Few
become a CEO. Why is it so important for
other executives to
think and -- more to the point -- act like
one?
Benton: You may not want to be
a CEO yourself but if you understand how
the most effective CEOs think, what they
want for themselves and others, you'll get
along better, have
more job security, enjoy your work more,
and maybe even become a CEO or an least get
promoted.
Morris: How
does a "business
mentor" differ from a "business coach"?
Benton: A coach is probably more
organized in the relationship and charges
more for time together. Revealingly, almost
all of the most effective senior-level executives
are mentors.
Morris: To what extent (if any)
can and should a supervisor be both a mentor
and coach?
Benton: They can mentor and coach
but an objective beyond their own self-interests
is also desirable because it's too tempting
to give advice based on what the boss wants/needs
or the company wants/needs vs. what you want/need.
Morris: How can anyone be her
or his own mentor and coach?
Benton: You definitely can by
committing to being both, to organizing yourself,
reading, researching, selecting behaviors
to change, and then having the discipline
to do
it.
Morris: Much
has been said and written about ³the glass ceiling.² Has
it been shattered, raised, replaced, or eliminated
by recent laws, social pressure, and
corporate policies?
Benton: The glass ceiling is still
there although many young women wrongly believe
it isn't because they have 50/50 men and
women in college classes, therefore concluding
that
it's 50/50 in the business world....it isn't
and won't be for generations, if ever. Not
when women are opting out of their careers
in huge numbers
today to return to their homes and raising
children. The glass ceiling is partially
male sponsored and partially female sponsored.
Blame must
be shared. However, the workplace is changing.
Schedules are becoming more flexible and
work is becoming (finally!) less gender-specific.
Morris: Rakesh
Khuranan in Search for a Corporate Savior:
The Irrational Quest
for Corporate CEOs and Jim Collins in Good
to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap...
and
Others Don't both suggest that the importance
of executive charisma is greatly exaggerated.
Apparently you don¹t agree.
Benton: Charisma as celebrity,
I agree. Charisma is the ability to gain
effective responses from others by using
aware actions and considerate civility in
order to get useful
tasks done. That style of leadership is not
and will never will be out of fashion.
Morris: Howard
Gardner has conducted extensive research
on the subject of multiple
intelligences. In Daniel Goleman¹s opinion,
the most important of these is emotional
intelligence. Do you agree?
Benton: 100%. I call it emotional
energy. In your work life you start out needing
physical energy, then intellectual energy,
before needing emotional energy. Most workers
stop
at the intellectual, however, and that's
what prevents them from achieving significant
professional and personal success.
Morris: Many people seem to have
a much greater fear of public speaking than
they do of death. Why is that so?
Benton: They have a negative mind
set that intimidates them. "I'm speaking to a group of 50 or 500." They
tell me they do well one-on-one but not when
speaking to a group. I urge them to think
of a group of 50 or 500 as lots of one- on-one
conversations going on simultaneously.. Just
change your mind set. And
of course, relax.
Morris: Local chambers of commerce
tend to have limited resources while being
expected to provide a full-range of services
to their members. Do you have any suggestions
as to how
chamber executives can do more with less?
Benton: Be a charismatic executive
as I describe....then be honest, fight for
your people. Be creative and resourceful,
ask questions, be nice, be humorous, be gutsy,
smile,
listen, and meanwhile tenacious to bring
out the best in others.
Morris: Given the numerous scandals
involving senior-level executives in companies
such as Enron, Tyco, WorldCom, Arthur Andersen,
and Merrill Lynch, what do you consider to
be the most valuable lessons to be learned
from those scandals?
Benton: That if you commit such
crimes, you will to jail, ruin your reputation,
embarrass your parents, alienate and disillusion
your children, and have disgrace the rest
of
your life. None of that is worth it no matter
how much money you make. Apparently some
think so, however, as they sit on their boat
in Cabo
San Lucas, plotting new schemes to harm others.
Morris: To those now preparing
for a career in business or who have only
recently embarked on one, any advice?
Benton: Never think you are the
exception to the rule of proven effective
behavior. Never compromise your integrity.
For example, getting away with stealing a
paper clip
today, a pen tomorrow, and then exaggerating
on the expense account. Eventually for many,
Enron-type behavior. It's a slippery slope
once
you start so don't! Also, don't assume all
CEOs are evil. Only a few are which is also
true of priests and soldiers who harm others.
They
just get the press coverage. Ethical people
seldom do. Go back to the list above: be
nice, be tenacious, etc. Read my book How
to Think Like
A CEO. And along the way, say a few prayers.
Morris: Thank you, Debra, for
agreeing to this interview for Chamber Executive
and especially for your thoughtful and thought-provoking
responses. All of us eagerly await
your next book.
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